gender discrepancy

“Mistress, I’m new to the scene, only played at a few parties so far.  But already I’ve noticed a gender discrepancy.  There’s a lot more female pros.  The male pros, usually cater to homosexual clientele.  There don’t seem to be any straight male Doms who cater to submissive women.  Is this a niche I could…

secret hand shake?

“Mistress, I played with a pro Domme for the first time a few weeks ago.  I’m playing with her again next week, and I’m hoping you can tell me…how can I access the “secret menu”?  I let her know I’m not a cop.  I gave her an extra hundred dollars…in advance.  I’m a nice guy…not…

feet

“Mistress, My boyfriend has a foot fetish.  I have no problem indulging him, but all he ever wants is my feet.  We don’t do anything else.  For him, foreplay is giving me a foot rub. First base is my feet in his lap, second is my stockings off, third is my toes in his mouth,…

don’t be that guy

“Mistress, I’ve been seeing my Domme for a few months and I think she might be open to seeing me outside her dungeon.  Obviously I’m attracted to her, and our kinky interests are well aligned.  But I don’t want to piss her off or creep her out. What’s the best way to test the waters? …

a dispute

“Mistress, Perhaps you could settle an argument. My submissive partner thinks that as the Dominant, I should not perform oral sex, as they believe it to be an inherently submissive act. I think that’s ridiculous. What do you think? -Hungry in Houston”   Dear Hungry in Houston,  Oral sex is most definitely not inherently submissive-…

symbols of ownership

“Hello Mistresses, I am the proud Master of a wonderful slave.  I’d love to give her a collar, however she works in a conservative office environment and such an accessory would reflect unfavorably.  Being Ladies of good taste, could you suggest an appropriate alternative?  Sources would be appreciated.  Thank you in advance, Robert” Hello Robert. …

reluctant lolita

“Mistress, Early in our relationship my fiancé asked me to call him Daddy.  I didn’t mind.  Then he asked me to wear Lolita type costumes.  He bought me several outfits.    Lately he wants me to role play that I’m a little girl.  It’s starting to make me feel really uncomfortable.  Is this normal? his…

dirty little secret

“Mistress, I can’t believe I’m telling you this but I wear ladies’ underwear under my regular underwear.  My girlfriend doesn’t have a clue, because I take extra precautions to not get caught.  But I’m getting tired of hiding it. Can you suggest a scenario for coming clean? Sincerely Panty Boy”   Dear sweet Panty Boy, …

professional vs personal?

“Mistress, Until about a year ago I was in a relationship with a Dominant lady.  This was when I found my true calling in life: serving, pleasing, and supporting a superior Dominant Woman.  Unfortunately the end of my relationship led me into a depression.  I haven’t had the nerve to look for anyone to date,…

dating a domme?

“Mistress, I met an awesome lady about a month ago at an art show at the gallery I manage.  She’s in her thirties.  She’s beautiful and cultured and is probably a genius.  We’ve gone out a few times and it was great.  She just told me she’s a professional Dominatrix.  At first she told me…

comic girl? not amused.

“Mistress, My boyfriend likes it when I dress up like over sexualized comic book characters.   It wouldn’t bother me so much, but he has more pictures of a certain female character from a certain popular movie than he does of me…and the only pictures he has of me, I’m dressed and made up like her. …

public humiliation

“Goddess, this slave longs to prove his devotion by committing public acts of debasement.  but i’m not so keen on the idea of getting kicked out of restaurants, going to jail, or ending up in some YouTube video titled “pussy whipped jackass”.  also my Mistress is a fairly modest lady, and i wouldn’t dream of…